Imagine being thrust into a five-day retreat where every gadget is confiscated at the door. No phone, no laptop, no digital tether to the outside world. For the participants of the Inner Conditioning Workshop facilitated by SEA Inc., this wasn’t just a program—it was a psychological battlefield.
Day one was a meltdown. The group—a mix of business executives, LGU employees, youth participants, solo parents, professors, and social workers—reacted as if they had been asked to amputate a limb. Hands twitched for absent phones, eyes darted to facilitators for mercy, and some even contemplated a dramatic escape.
“I can’t leave my phone—I need to update my child who’s left behind!” one participant exclaimed, panic-stricken.
Another worried aloud, “I need to do online banking! What will happen to my business? My daughter needs money for tuition—how can she take her exam if I can’t send it until the fifth day?”
“My husband will leave me if I don’t update him!” someone declared in exasperation.
“My boyfriend and I will be separated without saying ‘I love you’ every day!” a young woman lamented.
“I can’t play Scatter anymore. I’ll go home if you confiscate my phone!” another insisted, nearly in protest.
One participant’s voice rose above the growing unrest: “I need my phone. I can’t live normally without it.”
But despite the resistance, no one left.
As the hours crawled by, something unexpected happened. Strangers, once glued to screens, started talking. Business professionals engaged in discussions beyond profit margins. LGU workers exchanged ideas on governance without bureaucratic barriers. Solo parents found solace in shared struggles. Despite initial protests, youth participants discovered life beyond the dopamine rush of likes and shares.
“It’s nice not having a cellphone—we can actually talk to each other,” one participant noted, surprised at the depth of face-to-face conversations.
A solo parent reflected, “I was really able to rest from my worries. Turns out, my kids became independent.”
Teachers in the group had their revelation: “Oh, the school understood, and our schedule was cleared.”
The business sector participants found relief: “Our partners can also fill in responsibilities. We don’t need to micromanage everything.”
By day three, the transformation was undeniable. The panic of disconnection gave way to the joy of presence. Minds, once cluttered with digital noise, found space to breathe. Conversations deepened, laughter became more genuine, and silence was no longer terrifying—it was welcome.
When the final day arrived and devices were returned, hesitation filled the room. The urge to switch them on was there, but so was a newfound clarity. Emails could wait. Social media updates felt trivial. The world hadn’t crumbled in their absence—if anything, it had expanded.
The Inner Conditioning Workshop wasn’t about deprivation. It was about rediscovery. Time is a currency, silence is golden, and real connections will always outrank virtual ones. And as they walked away, many realized they weren’t in such a hurry to plug back in.
This transformative workshop serves as the operating system of the IPAT-SIAD program of SEA Inc., which advocates threefolding principles to foster holistic development. The Center for Bayanihan Economics in Angat, Bulacan, provides a space where these principles come to life, helping individuals reconnect with themselves and their communities. For more details, visit www.solutionecosystems.net.
