Thursday, December 25, 2025

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Skills Over Titles: Competence Wins

HAVE YOU EVER met someone with a fancy title, a string of letters after their name, or a corner office so big it could host a small concert… only to realize they can’t actually get anything done? 

The Back Story 

Money can buy the look of status, but it can’t buy the skill, guts, or brainpower to actually lead.

  • Titles are easy. 
  • Competence? That’s earned.

When Titles Lie

Situation: Your company hires a “Director of Innovation” because they’ve got connections, a fat salary, and a sparkling résumé. Everyone nods like they’re brilliant.

  • But as projects roll out… yikes! They don’t understand the process, ignore the team, and their decisions… questionable. 

The title screams “Director,” but results whisper “rookie.” Teams sigh. Progress stalls.

TIP: Watch what people do, not what’s printed on their business card. Titles wow at first glance. Actions? That’s the truth.

All Flash, No Substance

We all know someone who flaunts wealth, fancy gadgets, or big-name friends. Looks successful, right?

  • But when you actually need advice, guidance, or practical help… zero. 
  • Money bought attention, not wisdom or reliability.

TIP: Judge by ability to deliver, not shiny appearances. Competence builds trust. Titles alone? Nope.

Talkers vs Doers: Who Wins?

Local leaders or influencers with awards and public praise might look impressive. But when it’s time to organize events, help people, or make a real difference… uh-oh.

  • Money can buy influence, but not real capability or respect earned from actually doing.

TIP: Pay attention to who actually makes things happen. Results never lie.

Skills Over Status: The Real Power

Money can hand someone a title, but it can’t buy curiosity, persistence, or actual skills.

Competence comes from experience, effort, and showing up. 

  • Training helps, yes, but only if the person actually applies it.

Tips And Techniques 

  1. Look past the title: Observe behaviors, not business cards.
  2. Value competence over credentials:Skills, not letters after a name. Always.
  3. Learn from doers, not show-offs: People who deliver teach more than people who just talk about delivering.

Next time you see a shiny title or fancy accolade, ask yourself: 

  • Do they actually deliver? 

If not… smile, nod, and move along. Titles fade. Competence lasts.

Remember:  Choose substance over sparkle.

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Vivien Mangalindan is a dynamic Broadcast Journalist and engaging Global Public Speaker. She empowers individuals and groups with "Conversation Masterclass: Unlock Your Power to Connect" - because real influence begins with real connection.